जिन्दगी चलती जाती है …..

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LIFE GOES ON

Life goes on.

 Every clock, every moment, just goes on

 Like we have tried to fill sand in a fist,

 And like that shattered sand,

This life just slips.

 Like we tried to run with needles in the clock,

 And like that passing time,

This life just passes.

 Like we tried to fill the water in the sieve,

 And like that flowing water,

This life just flows.

Life just goes on .

 Every clock, every moment, just goes away.

And then one day-

Like a full circle,

  This unfinished journey

Unknowingly, it becomes complete.

  Do not know how many dreams, how many fans,

  remain in this heart.

  Like the night firefly tried to   

  illuminat  Be it

  And when the day comes,

 the firefly disappears.

This life is just lost.

This life is lost.

          =>Ritu

किसने समझा उसे?

उसकी आँखो में भी ,

कुछ सुनहरे ख्वाब थे।

उसके दिल में भी, 

कुछ हसीन  हसरतें थी।

उसके जज्बातों में भी, 

कुछ अनदेखा जुनून था।

उसके लबों पर भी,

कुछ हक की  बातें थी।

उसकी बातों मे भी, 

कुछ छिपी सिसकियाँ थी।

उसकी  चाहतों मे भी, 

किसी की यादें थी ।

पर, 

किसने  समझा  उसे?

शायद किसी ने नहीं,

शायद कभी भी नहीं।।🙇

                   》 Ritu 

Psychology of society towards Girls👩

This man dominated society has always prevented the girls from moving forward. Always a man takes the decision of the future of the girls. The society believes that the girls should live inside the house only, and that the girls are in the house. They should not go out of the house. What is to be done girls is simply to take care of the houses. From birth to marriage, it is to be take care of your father’s house where she has to follow the teachings of her father and her family and keep silent. The people who make the decision will have to admit with smile without any objection.

Life travel of a girl-

When, she was in the womb of his mother.  As soon as her family member got to know her, her mother, who is herself a girl, would be ready to assassinate her fetus but if she survived like a poor, then  till the 5 years of age she does not get as much love as the parents does to a boy. It is illegal. From the age of 5 to 8 years which should be the beginning of her reading, it has to be cared for. It has to be taken care of that.

The girl has to do her own work like preparing a bath she needs to eat herself with her own hands as soon as she is 8 years old, she start teaching her work at home like washing, broom and serve food even watering. All this keeps going till the age of 12.

When the girl completes her 12 or 13 years More than half of the house’s work is left over to it. Like cooking, serving everyone, washing dishes, sending brother to school, and scolding if the work gets deteriorated. Now even in the hands of that girl in the hands of the house. It has not yet understood its meaning. Thousands of restrictions are imposed on her. Like

1– Clothes to wear with your parents’ choice.

2- Do not talk to 2-guys.

3- Do not go out of the house alone.

4- Do not talk to anyone loudly.

5- Do not laugh too much in front of relatives.

Because,  if a girl does not do this then she will not have good relations for her marriage. And then after completing 16 years planning of her marriage start the marriage starts happening, even sometimes marriage is done before 18 and the girl gets married, she also gets married with the choice of her parents and relatives. Nobody wanted to know whether she was happy or not. Did she want to get married? Or some of his dreams were his own. She gets married. She gets married. After marriage, she enters in another house. Where only the change was done, Ghungghat took the place of dupatta in his life and was first known as his father’s daughter. Now known as husband’s wife, that house was called Mayka, and now this house is called in-laws. She used to obey the father, brother, grandmother, mother, everybody’s command. she used to take the decision of her future. And here all his decisions take her husband, mother-in-law and father-in-law. And sometimes the girls are beaten in the in-laws’ house. And many times they are killed for dowry.

And because of all this, her husband hopes to get the birth of a boy from her in-laws. And if that girl has a girl in her womb, then she forces her to murder the fetus. And If she fails to give birth to the child, then she is pronounced. she is constrained for divorce. On many occasions, the girl is abandoned, and her husband remarries. .  ” Well this is the irony of the life of a girl.”

If a child becomes a child, then the whole life goes out for the children and seeing the woman, the woman becomes a mother from the woman, and she fulfills all the wishes – one day just dies.

Now here is a question for you, for this societyis this the life of a girl? If you had thought that if all this was with a boy, would he have been able to tolerate all this? Maybe a girl who is an equal shareholder in running a society, her life just deserved it. Is a woman who gives birth to a man, her life just deserve so much, maybe not at all.

         In her eyes ,

There were some golden dreams

       In her heart 

There were some beautiful  desires. 

      In her emotions, 

There was some undiscovered  passion. 

      On her lips 

Things were some right.

      In her words  (too),

There were some hidden  sticks.

     In her thoughts, 

There was someone’s memory.

    But, who understand  her?

     May be no one.

   Probably never.

                        》Ritu

          🎆🌠Diwali🎆

​“The victory of light over dark”

Deepavali is a national festival in India. Deepavali means “rows of clay lamps”. It is a festival of light. Diwali is other name of deepavali celebrated every year in month of October or November by Hindus or we can say that in month of kartika on 15th day. On fest of Diwali we are worshipping Lord Ganesha and Goddess Laxmi.  Goddess Laxmi symbolizes money and property and Lord Ganesha symbolizes intelligence and knowledge. And we obviously want knowledge and wealth so we worshipped both Laxmi and Ganesha on Diwali. In this day we are lighting up our home as well as our soul.The inner light that protects from darkness and bring spirituality in life.

History of Diwali:

Diwali memorializes, because on this day, after completing his 14 years exile Lord Rama return to his dynasty Ayodhya. the people of Ayodhya illuminated rows of diyas(clay lamps) to cheers the victory of Lord Rama. There are various stories behind Diwali but I personally believe on this.  

This is 5 days festival

1st day:-  first day of festival we celebrate as Dhanteras. On this day people clean their house and workplace decorates their houses and workplaces. On this day people believe in shopping of gold, silver and kitchen utensils. So all people according to budget buy some gold and silver coins  for diwali pujan.

2nd day:– second day is celebrated as chhoti Diwali. On this day people decorate their full home and workplace with tinny lights, making designs with colors (rangoli),  different- different color of light, candles, flowers and clay lamps(Diyas). Making lots of mouth-watering  sweets for Diwali pujan. Bring mumra(made up of dhan) and gatta(made up of sugar).  And  shopping of traditional clothes.

3rd day:- this is the main day of Diwali. On this day in evening  people wear new cloths and dressed well  and worshipped  Lord Ganesha and goddess Laxmi with sweets, flowers along with whole family and friends.

And light up diyas and put these clay lamps everywhere in his house and do fireworks cracks crackers. Along with all this festivities  meeting  with their friends and family and exchanged gifts and sweets boxes.

4th day:-  this day is celebrated  as Govardhan pooja. Govardhan pooja  is done with curi, rice, dahi bara, sweets  and chapati. Whole family stands together worshipped Govardhan and complete 101 rounds of Govardhan. 


5th day:– this day is dedicated to Love of brother and sister, So this is celebrated as Bhai doj. We all know that relation of brother and sister unique in this world. On this day sister put kumkum tilak on his brother’s forehead treat sweet and pray for his long life. And in returns brother gives gift to his sister. 

“न जाने कब? “

‘अरमान’ न जाने कब ?

                        ‘लफ्ज’ बनकर ।

उनके पहलू में  जा पहुंचे।

‘ख्वाब’ न जाने कब ?

                         ‘हकीकत’  बनकर ।

नजर के सामने आ पहुंचे ।

वो न जाने कब ?

                         ‘सांस’ बनकर ।

हमारी रूह में जा पहुंचे ।

“और अब आलम है “-

कि ‘सांसो ‘के बिना, ‘रूह’ नहीं ।

और ‘उनके’ बिना, ‘जिन्दगी’ नहीं ।।

The mystery blogger award!

Hello everyone!

 mystery blogger award this is a very first time , I was nominated for this award by a great blogger Jerry perri.

Thanks a lot Jerry, it is such a great thing for me..

He is a motivational, inspirational, love, romance poetry blogger so he posts such a really good stuff.

He posted stories, poetries and motivational posts. You can check his blog Jerry perri. This award is for bloggers who find passion and inspiration in blogging so this award inspire and motivate them.

Creator of this award is Okoto Enigma. please visit her blog.

Nominees are-:

Shineshraddha 

Radhika

Dilkash Shayari

vivachange 

bpawar
Russel Ray photos 

ashu777

Beauty at outskirt 

Heart to soul

Mr. Lonely 

mage1999

needhamb 

Sunny sunshine 

tanupriya sharma


The Rules of the award-

1. Put the logo/image on your blog.

2. List the rules.

3. Thank the person who nominated you and links their blog.

4. Mention the creator of the award and link their blog.

5. Tell your reader 3 things about yourself.

6. You have to nominate 10-20 people (I will prefer 10 to 20).

7. Notify your nominees by commenting on their blog.

8. Ask your nominees 5 questions of your choice; with one weird or funny question.

9. Share a link to your best post(s)

3 things about me_

I am very passionate about blogging.

I love reading.

I am very serious type of person.

Questions  from  my  nominator.

1. What is your nickname and how long do you intend to keep it?

2. Have you ever sang a song or wrote a poem for the one you love? What is the first line?

3. What do you do when you faced tough/bad situations?

4. Will you want to marry your first date?

5. Can you dance naked in a busy street for ten million dollars?

Answers
-:

*Ritu, always.

*Yes! I wrote a poem for the love one(एक ख्याल सा तू, या हसीन ख्वाब कैसे कहलूं!)

*I just think about the cause of problem and then try to find a better solution.

*Yes!

*No!

Questions for my Nominees.

*What is your favorite book name?

*How many Pizza you can eat in one day?

*Which is your favorite song?

*Can you upload your dance video here?

*Where you want to go in future?

My best posts are

“जिन्दगी  को करीब से देखा है…..”

“Spritual Glamour”

एक सर्द रात, और चाँद !

One common reason behind unemployment in India- 

First of all I wanna say sorry to my readers because I didn’t write anything for some times. You have noticed my absence for sometimes. Actually I had busy in my exams and Trainings. Now I am writing a post. Let’s continue, my todays post is about “always resources are not the reason of unemployment”.

I post 3 vacancies on linkedIn. Many people send their Cvs in my mail. And talk to me like they are very sincere, they are very needy for job. In other words we can say that they shows their full interest even ask time and date for interview till one day before interview.

   Almost 100 cvs in my mail. I discussed with my senior and select some candidates for interview.

And now interesting thing —–

2 days before interview-

When I called them for interview……….

 1.“The no. you are calling is either switched off or not reachable”.

2.“The no. you are calling is busy”.

3.(While I am asking for other contact no.) “Sorry I have only one contact no”.

4.“I am sorry I can’t go for an interview today, please Re-scheduled it tomorrow or day after”.

5.“I am not looking for a job now” (why to update your resume on a portal if you are not a job seeker).

6.“I cannot come, my accident happened” (on the day of interview).

7.“I am ill” (most common in India).

8.“Parents not allowed me for this job”.(so why are you applying for this job)

9.“Somebody expired in his/her family so they can’t come for interview” (And suddenly on the day of interview).

Only two candidates reached there for interview. 

So friends always resource are not the reason of employment.

Do not play with recruiters.

THANK YOU!